Child Abuse and Families with Trans Youth by Kiristen Hubbard

 

In February, Texas Governor Greg Abbott called upon licensed professionals and people in the community to report the parents of transgender youth who were assumed to be receiving gender affirming care. The Texas governor made these statements soon after Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton stated his opinion on trans youth receiving hormone therapy, puberty blockers, and gender affirmation surgeries. “Paxton issued the opinion after the Legislature failed last year to pass a bill that would have made it a felony alongside physical and sexual abuse to provide such care to minors. An opinion is an interpretation of existing law; it does not change the law itself but can affect how it is enforced” (NBC News, 2022). Many articles are stating that Governor Abbott is declaring war on trans youth and families by threatening to have Child Protective Services (CPS) get involved for providing their children access to gender affirming care. In addition to the families facing CPS calls and possible criminal charges, those who choose not to report could potentially face criminal charges as well. Readers have compared this to the Texas abortion ban law that punishes doctors for providing safe abortions. Similar to the abortion ban laws, this law targets those who have intersecting identities, creating more barriers. Essentially, trans youth of color are going to be affected at a disproportionately higher rate.

            Texas American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) attorney, Brian Klosterboer, stated that parents who are assisting their children with receiving gender affirming care are not breaking any laws. It is a violation of their constitutional rights, especially because of this being an interpretation of the law, rather than the meaning of the law. He also discussed how this could potentially lead to false reporting, which will contribute to overwhelming the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services (DFPS) (NBC News, 2022).

This interpretation of the law is dehumanizing and dangerous for families of trans youth, not just because of the potential family separation, but the trauma this could cause. It sends a message that trans youth do not deserve to access necessary healthcare. Separating families could lead to the youth being put in abusive situations with their foster families who may be transphobic. This could include not respecting pronouns, forcing them to dress according to their sex and not their gender, using dead names, being exposed to conversion therapy, and bullying. There are trans youth who only have a safe space at home and removing them from that safety net can lead to increased rates of depression and suicidal ideation. Removing the children from their homes could also mean them being removed from their friends and educational settings. Imagine having to bear the burden of educating everyone at your current school, finally being able to utilize the correct bathroom, and having your identity being recognized, then everything being ripped away from you. Imagine how damaging that is to a child. Thirteen-year-old Adelyn Vigil now lives in fear of these very things and suffers from panic attacks because she is afraid of being torn away from her mother (Texas Tribune, 2022). Imagine how many other Adelyn’s there are. This is not just an argument about this being necessary care, it is an argument about this being lifesaving care.

“Research demonstrates that gender-affirming care—a medical and psychosocial health care designed to affirm individuals' gender identities—greatly improves the mental health and overall well-being of gender diverse, transgender, and nonbinary children and adolescents” (Matouk & Wald, 2022). Ve’Ondre Mitchell (IG: @veondremitchell) is a 17-year-old transwoman of color who resides in Seattle, Washington. Mitchell utilizes her social media platforms to educate the public about issues that affect the trans community by sharing her personal experiences as a “proud transwoman of color” while adding a bit of humor. She has made local headlines due to breaking barriers for things such as being the first Black couple to win homecoming court in a long time and being the first openly trans homecoming queen. Commenters have questioned whether her “breast are real” and she frequently addresses this invasive and inappropriate question with humor, tact, intelligence, and grace. She informs people on social media that this question should not be asked, but she is comfortable answering for educational purposes. Ve’ has shared that she has a “natural body” because her mother was supportive of her receiving gender affirming care at a young age, which prevented her from going through puberty. She avoided dealing with the pain of her voice getting deeper, forming masculine features, growing facial hair, and other things that come along with male puberty. She also acknowledges that although she has struggles as a trans youth, there are certain burdens that she has not had to bear recognizing some form of privilege of having a supportive mother. Mitchell is an example of why having accessible gender affirming care as a youth is vital.

Ve’Ondre Mitchell has also been transparent about her experience with being wrongly put within the system because there was a CPS report made against her mother. Her and her mother were banished from the church because her mother chose to support her daughter’s transition when she was in elementary school. She made a Tiktok of her experience being questioned by a member of the clergy as a child. She was asked a range of questions, with some being about whether her mother was abusing her and if she was being forced to “dress like a girl”. Ve’ and her mother were separated for some time, and she makes another video joking about how she had to explain to her younger brother where “his older brother went” once she returned home. Ve’Ondre was able to return to her family, but she never should have had to experience this as a child.

Texas is not the only state that is attacking trans youth and their families. Parents all over the country are scared for their children’s safety daily but adding on the element of being put into the system for receiving necessary medical care is sad. ACLU understands how these families are being affected and is currently suing and fighting against this injustice. According to GLAAD, the American Psychiatric Association, American Medical Association, American Academy of Pediatrics and more have spoken out against laws and regulations that are being proposed. Gender affirming care is not a privilege or a form of abuse, it is a right and should be treated as such. Trans youth should not have to suffer.

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References: https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-politics-and-policy/texas-governor-calls-citizens-report-parents-transgender-kids-abuse-rcna17455

https://www.columbiapsychiatry.org/news/gender-affirming-care-saves-lives

https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/texas-wants-to-take-trans-kids-from-their-supportive-parents-were-suing

https://www.texastribune.org/2022/02/28/texas-transgender-child-abuse/

https://www.instagram.com/veondremitchell/?hl=en

https://www.glaad.org/blog/medical-association-statements-supporting-trans-youth-healthcare-and-against-discriminatory

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